Thursday, December 11, 2008

Truck Trouble...

So we have a pretty old work truck. Fact is, I'm not sure that keeping it running is any cheaper than buying a new truck, but you know how that goes.

So the latest escapade in our truck breakdown saga happened today. One of my guys calls me from 15 miles away and lets me know he cant drive the truck back cause it's broke. One of the pulleys on one of the belts is moments away from giving up the ghost - it was the death squeals that brought it to his attention...

So I flew on down there and took a look. Here is what I found.


That first picture is a little bit confusing for some, so here is one that shows the damage a little clearer...



So now we can either gamble our truck engine along with various other (belted together) parts, or we can play our AAA card. We told them what truck we needed towed, and they showed up in what looked like a totally miniature towtruck. Not to be scoffed, our towmaster Farooq actually got our truck up onto his (barely) and he and I chatted all the way back to our hometown.

Just so you could fully appreciate the audacity of the situation.... I took a photo :)






Truck anyone?

Thursday, December 4, 2008

Woodworking v. 2.0.0.8 Cabinet w/ Doors *whew*

This will be a short little update. Thought I would throw in a couple pics of the kids while posting the progress I have made on the nightstands I am making!

Lincoln and I Christmas Shopping (Natalie is SO happy).

Greyson sleeping in the car - masterful camerawork if I do say so myself! We were parked while Natalie ran into a store and I took this "no look" shot.


Ok, here come the cabinets. The first shot is of a raised panel door frame and will give you an idea of how complicated some of this joinery can be. The difficulty here is making all the parts so that they fit together tight enough that they don't slip even without glue, yet you can pull them apart once you put them together. Time lapse from the first pic to the last pic is about 10 hours of wood trimming, gluing, and more fitting.







So the doors are perfectly fit now (as in less than a 64th of an inch gap - they stay in by themselves). Saturday I will work on the tops and the drawers- Monday I finish hanging the doors. Hopefully I can get these things finished... CHRISTMAS IS COMING lol.

Monday, November 17, 2008

A quiet voice of logic amidst the clamor of Intolerance

Everyone in the United States is aware of the battle that raged during the elections over Proposition 8 in California. It was a much debated, much reported, and much anticipated vote.

When the votes were counted, the California Constitution was amended to affirm that marriage would only be recognized between a man and a woman... by only 4%.

Did people on both sides conduct themselves perfectly during the democratic process? No. Are there instances documented where things got out of line? Yes. One would think that the majority decision would subdue the passion of both sides, that the losing side would concede and eagerly begin plans to overturn the decision in the next election...

As many of you know, I have bought my way into our family business that my father built over the last 29 years. Our reputation is our most cherished asset, and we protect it carefully.

During the recent campaign, my father made a private donation of $1000 to the "Yes on 8" effort. Though we have very strong beliefs as business owners, we respect the right for others to express their opinions and through our business we cater to individuals of every race, religion, economic status, and lifestyle. We provide the same specified level of service regardless of those very same descriptors, and always have.

Since the election, we have received several abrupt anonymous phone calls deriding my father for his contribution; The business has been listed on anti-gay websites, and anonymous mail has arrived criticizing our company for its stance on this issue. In every case, the people calling made no effort to speak with the owners, and would not leave a name or a phone number for a return call. The letters likewise avoided accountability through anonymity.

While many who are of the same opinion as these commentators may applaud their efforts to 'make a difference' by trying to forward their agenda, as a human being I can only marvel at the disrespect, cowardice and intolerance that is being demonstrated by such communications - as well as the negative impact incurred.

Let me delve deeper into the reasons why I presume make such harsh accusations.

First and foremost, this country is founded on principles that allow people to maintain their own perspective and opinion. Anything other than a reasonable discussion about opinion is futile, in most instances resulting in an agreement to disagree. Fundamental differences in belief or opinion by nature cannot be instantly resolved to the satisfaction of both parties, especially where such profound ramifications are in the balance.

Recognizing that there are differences that can never be mended, anonymously disparaging the opposing opinion can only be considered the epitome of cowardice and disrespect. Furthermore to demand tolerance with one hand while writing criticism of opinion with the other is the worst type of hypocrisy.

Perhaps the greatest irony of all in this situation is the propensity for friendly fire. While boycotting businesses using as criteria the opinion of its owners might seem just, it is tactically the most damaging behavior possible (short of vandalism and violence). Each business employs people of diverse belief systems and backgrounds. How well do you presume to know the employees of any company? Out of the more than dozen direct employees and the 20 other licensed contractors that we use to install our flooring how many voted either side of this issue? I cannot speak for other companies, but our employees are sickened by the commentary that is flowing into our business regardless of their stance on these issues. One person has communicated to me that they felt ashamed to be associated with these people by virtue of their no on 8 vote.

As their employer, I can assure you that I do not know how many of my employees voted against me on prop 8, nor would I ask or even intimate that it is any of my business. We all have different reasons for voting the way we do - and our vote might be for very different reasons than the most obvious.

I respect your right to boycott my business. I respect your right to have an opinion that is not congruent with my beliefs. However, I refuse to respect the cowardice the urges people to behave in a manner unbecoming a citizen of our country. Do not think to join the ranks of the great dissidents who have gone before us if you can but protest the rights of others to have an opinion, a cause, or a belief.

I find it fascinating when people let down their guard and communicate what is in their hearts. As a people watcher, the moments when people open up and show their true colors reminds me of finding a perfect sand dollar on the beach as a child - for a moment time stands still and I can only marvel at the depth and complexity of the moment as it rests in my hands.

But as I examine the true colors of what lies before me today; I can see that while some considered this issue to be about rights, families, tolerance, and equality - It has been reduced to violence, selfishness, disrespect, and yes even discrimination towards anyone that will not lie down and agree.

True colors have never been such a disappointment.


Tuesday, November 4, 2008

Honesty in Journalism! (Not written by a reporter of course)


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Would the Last Honest Reporter Please Turn On the Lights?


by Orson Scott Card

October 20, 2008
An open letter to the local daily paper -- almost every local daily paper in America:

I remember reading All the President's Men and thinking: That's journalism. You do what it takes to get the truth and you lay it before the public, because the public has a right to know.

This housing crisis didn't come out of nowhere. It was not a vague emanation of the evil Bush administration.

It was a direct result of the political decision, back in the late 1990s, to loosen the rules of lending so that home loans would be more accessible to poor people. Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac were authorized to approve risky loans.

What is a risky loan? It's a loan that the recipient is likely not to be able to repay.

The goal of this rule change was to help the poor -- which especially would help members of minority groups. But how does it help these people to give them a loan that they can't repay? They get into a house, yes, but when they can't make the payments, they lose the house -- along with their credit rating.

They end up worse off than before.

This was completely foreseeable and in fact many people did foresee it. One political party, in Congress and in the executive branch, tried repeatedly to tighten up the rules. The other party blocked every such attempt and tried to loosen them.

Furthermore, Freddie Mac and Fannie Mae were making political contributions to the very members of Congress who were allowing them to make irresponsible loans. (Though why quasi-federal agencies were allowed to do so baffles me. It's as if the Pentagon were allowed to contribute to the political campaigns of congressmen who support increasing their budget.)

Isn't there a story here? Doesn't journalism require that you who produce our daily paper tell the truth about who brought us to a position where the only way to keep confidence in our economy was a $700 billion bailout? Aren't you supposed to follow the money and see which politicians were benefiting personally from the deregulation of mortgage lending?

I have no doubt that if these facts had pointed to the Republican Party or to John McCain as the guilty parties, you would be treating it as a vast scandal. "Housing-gate," no doubt. Or "Fannie-gate."

Instead, it was Sen. Christopher Dodd and Congressman Barney Frank, both Democrats, who denied that there were any problems, who refused Bush administration requests to set up a regulatory agency to watch over Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac, and who were still pushing for these agencies to go even further in promoting subprime mortgage loans almost up to the minute they failed.

As Thomas Sowell points out in a TownHall.com essay entitled "Do Facts Matter?" (http://snipurl.com/457to): "Alan Greenspan warned them four years ago. So did the Chairman of the Council of Economic Advisers to the President. So did Bush's Secretary of the Treasury."

These are facts. This financial crisis was completely preventable. The party that blocked any attempt to prevent it was ... the Democratic Party. The party that tried to prevent it was ... the Republican Party.

Yet when Nancy Pelosi accused the Bush administration and Republican deregulation of causing the crisis, you in the press did not hold her to account for her lie. Instead, you criticized Republicans who took offense at this lie and refused to vote for the bailout!

What? It's not the liar, but the victims of the lie who are to blame?

Now let's follow the money ... right to the presidential candidate who is the number two recipient of campaign contributions from Fannie Mae.

And after Fred Raines, the CEO of Fannie Mae who made $90 million while running it into the ground, was fired for his incompetence, one presidential candidate's campaign actually consulted him for advice on housing.

If that presidential candidate had been John McCain, you would have called it a major scandal and we would be getting stories in your paper every day about how incompetent and corrupt he was.

But instead, that candidate was Barack Obama, and so you have buried this story, and when the McCain campaign dared to call Raines an "adviser" to the Obama campaign -- because that campaign had sought his advice -- you actually let Obama's people get away with accusing McCain of lying, merely because Raines wasn't listed as an official adviser to the Obama campaign.

You would never tolerate such weasely nit-picking from a Republican.

If you who produce our local daily paper actually had any principles, you would be pounding this story, because the prosperity of all Americans was put at risk by the foolish, short-sighted, politically selfish and possibly corrupt actions of leading Democrats, including Obama.

If you who produce our local daily paper had any personal honor, you would find it unbearable to let the American people believe that somehow Republicans were to blame for this crisis.

There are precedents. Even though President Bush and his administration never said that Iraq sponsored or was linked to 9/11, you could not stand the fact that Americans had that misapprehension -- so you pounded us with the fact that there was no such link. (Along the way, you created the false impression that Bush had lied to them and said that there was a connection.)

If you had any principles, then surely right now, when the American people are set to blame President Bush and John McCain for a crisis they tried to prevent, and are actually shifting to approve of Barack Obama because of a crisis he helped cause, you would be laboring at least as hard to correct that false impression.

Your job, as journalists, is to tell the truth. That's what you claim you do, when you accept people's money to buy or subscribe to your paper.

But right now, you are consenting to or actively promoting a big fat lie -- that the housing crisis should somehow be blamed on Bush, McCain and the Republicans. You have trained the American people to blame everything bad -- even bad weather -- on Bush, and they are responding as you have taught them to.

If you had any personal honor, each reporter and editor would be insisting on telling the truth -- even if it hurts the election chances of your favorite candidate.

Because that's what honorable people do. Honest people tell the truth even when they don't like the probable consequences. That's what honesty means. That's how trust is earned.

Barack Obama is just another politician, and not a very wise one. He has revealed his ignorance and naivete time after time -- and you have swept it under the rug, treated it as nothing.

Meanwhile, you have participated in the borking of Sarah Palin, reporting savage attacks on her for the pregnancy of her unmarried daughter -- while you ignored the story of John Edwards' own adultery for many months.

So I ask you now: Do you have any standards at all? Do you even know what honesty means?

Is getting people to vote for Barack Obama so important that you will throw away everything that journalism is supposed to stand for?

You might want to remember the way the National Organization of Women (NOW) threw away their integrity by supporting Bill Clinton despite his well-known pattern of sexual exploitation of powerless women. Who listens to NOW anymore? We know they stand for nothing; they have no principles.

That's where you are right now.

It's not too late. You know that if the situation were reversed, and the truth would damage McCain and help Obama, you would be moving heaven and earth to get the true story out there.

If you want to redeem your honor, you will swallow hard and make a list of all the stories you would print if it were McCain who had been getting money from Fannie Mae, McCain whose campaign had consulted with its discredited former CEO, McCain who had voted against tightening its lending practices.

Then you will print them, even though every one of those true stories will point the finger of blame at the reckless Democratic Party, which put our nation's prosperity at risk so they could feel good about helping the poor, and lay a fair share of the blame at Obama's door.

You will also tell the truth about John McCain: that he tried, as a senator, to do what it took to prevent this crisis. You will tell the truth about President Bush: that his administration tried more than once to get Congress to regulate lending in a responsible way.

This was a Congress-caused crisis, beginning during the Clinton administration, with Democrats leading the way into the crisis and blocking every effort to get out of it in a timely fashion.

If you at our local daily newspaper continue to let Americans believe -- and vote as if -- President Bush and the Republicans caused the crisis, then you are joining in that lie.

If you do not tell the truth about the Democrats -- including Barack Obama -- and do so with the same energy you would use if the miscreants were Republicans -- then you are not journalists by any standard.

You're just the public relations machine of the Democratic Party, and it's time you were all fired and real journalists brought in, so that we can actually have a daily newspaper in our city.


Friday, October 24, 2008

Woodworking

So it has been a while since I decided I would take up Woodworking as a hobby. I have acquired some tools (secondhand (thanks scott) and new) and have started to make some interesting projects.

My first dilemma was where to go to actually learn 'da skiwllz'. After some research, I learned that the only place where adults can learn woodworking in our area is a night class offered by a local high school.

So I signed up to a course that turned out to be 'open tool night for senior citizens'. The teacher made us make a cutting board to learn basic tool skills, and then ceased anything but passive supervision.

So I stopped going to class - what point right?

The nearest actual program with facilities and an actual degree in woodworking is located about 50 miles away - straight through Los Angeles and south of the city center. (yeah, try getting there in time for the 6 pm class!) The place is called Cerritos College - they have a huge facility, and so I tried them out.

We started out simple, making a sanding block and a 'push stick' - both made to exacting specifications and sanded and polished to a gleam - I'm not kidding on the perfection of the finish either, here is the 'push stick'. It helps the table saw blade avoid fingerfood :) as you push wood over it.

So we moved on to the next project, which was a deadblow hammer. They had a plan and schematics, but as those of you that know me will understand, I don't do well sticking to the somewhat boring plans dreamed up by other people. I had to go and make it about 100x more difficult, adding more than just a change of shape or including a different wood... By the time I was done there was a distinct difference between the 2. In the end the class spent so much time on the hammer, that there wasn't enough time to complete the scheduled toolbox - so the rough cut / jointed pieces are sitting in my garage, dry assembled and waiting for attention that will never arrive.

So I kept my woodworking ambitions alive and well and signed up for the next class.

The next class is the night stand class - where the students make 1 night stand (ok, someone tell me if there is sense in making just 1?!? My wife would KILL me).


So I decided to make 2. The teacher just shook his head, and made it clear that I would have a REALLY hard time keeping up in class if I tried to make 2 at once. What he didn't know is that I am superman in the wood shop, so I have been doing just fine. I also happened to modify the design (again) increasing not only its appeal, but its difficulty (exponentially).

The last 2 projects were made with Walnut and Maple. The nightstands I decided to make out of African Mahogany. They are wider and taller than the design states, the 'sled' legs are also a modification... and when we get to the doors and the drawer I will be making even more changes. I thought I would show you guys where we are at, and then I will post again when they are closer to being finished.

Here are the basic pieces I have been working my butt off trying to get finished, and painstakingly fitted together (tight, but not TOO tight). You start off with a rough board (pic 1) and work your way to planks, then panels, then grooving and fitting... well, you will see the pics. My nightstand has a small shelf in the bottom cabinet, Nat's doesn't. There is a blown up view, and a couple after assembly.

I am working on the stretchers now (bottom cross pieces) and will move to the cabinet back next. So far so good!

Ben


Thursday, October 16, 2008

Fire

If you have been watching the news, you may have seen updates on 2 fires in Southern California. So far the Marek and Sesnon fires have burned more than 18,000 acres, killed 2 people, destroyed 49 structures, and cost the taxpayers more than $2.5 million.

Both fires are within a dozen miles of our home as a bird flies - but not close enough for any panic :)

Here is a pic taken about 3 blocks from our home of the current fires - we are only separated from them by a line of mountains.

You may think that we are being a little too calm for having a wildfire within view from our home, but as they say, familiarity breeds... contempt? Whatever the saying, our last bout with fires at the same time last year was closer, worse, and definitely more scary. The smoke from the fires filled our sky, leaked through the microscopic vents in the windows that nobody knows exist, and covered our world! Not withstanding, it was the red flames in view from our home that caused most of the fun. Here are a couple pics from last year...



































As for this round, we are safe, it looks like they will get these fires under control soon, and they are headed further away from us in any case. Hopefully this is the last of the fires this season - with our "Santa Ana Wind" weather patterns, (warm, dry winds that blow hard, gusting up to 90 mph) all it takes is an errant power line, or someone with a black heart, and we could see many more this year.

Monday, August 25, 2008

A day or 2 in the Life

The time has come for the update I have been taking my sweet time getting to... Every time I thought there was a free moment, either something would come up, or I would realize that I had left the camera at home again.
Our family is doing wonderfully, there is always something going on that keeps us on our toes, but
we are so blessed. As you will see in our pictures, there is a lot of happiness in our family, (in between the time-outs and the discipline lol) and it seems that things are just getting better as we go along.
The first pic is Natalie and Greyson having a great time at our family reunion - camping just south of the Strawberry reservoir in Utah. Natalie is an amazing mom to our kids, they are incredibly low key - secure that they are loved and taken care of by their mommy!
They get along famously, Lincoln loves his big brother, and constantly focuses on him - every time Greyson even looks his direction he giggles and smiles at his big brother.

Greyson is a great big brother as well, he likes to entertain Lincoln by showing him toys, playing peek-a-boo and sharing his old entertainment table with him.

Lincoln turns over enough to make his way to anything he thinks is interesting, but though he wiggles pretty convincingly, crawling is still a little ways off.
For those of you that have been close to our family, you probably remember Gypsy :). She is 4 and a half now, and still is a great dog! She has been relatively trouble free for us, with 1 or 2 little hiccups along the way. Well, recently we hit one of those little rough patches... she has decided that if we are out of the house, she will just help herself to our garbage. We arrive at the house, and trash is all over the place... and Gypsy is nowhere to be found! Both times she has been crouched at the top of the stairs watching, and when we step onto the stairs she whirls away and hides lol! This dog is WAY TOO SMART. She is awesome with our kids though, she puts up with a lot of abuse from Greyson and loves him anyway.


Funny story - We were given a museum piano, the family wanted it to go to a good home. Well, it's a player piano, and we heard of a good restorer that lives nearby. He came by one night at 8 pm to check out our piano... It is a quite rare model made by The Cable Co. Chicago cerca 1914! We decided to do what we could to get it in working condition without spending the thousands it would take to restore it. Well, wasting no time, Larry Broadmore dove in and removed all of the player parts from our piano. He was at our home till about 2am the following morning rofl. They will shore up the vacuum system and we plan to have it up and running by Christmas 2009.

Well, thats enough updating I suppose! I guess I should be... *looks around furtively* working right now... So here is one more pic of Lincoln and I catching a late night show, or at least, I caught it - Lincoln wasn't in the right frame of mind to catch more than a few Zs.

Friday, July 18, 2008

OK OK, 1 update before I go...


So I put in some info under "about me" and I thought, well, might as well throw a couple pictures up before I go.

So here you are, and I will try to finish the major update when I get back!

This is my hotty wife Natalie...




And the latest pic I have of our two boys.... I think it is a few months old, but more to come!











I'm out of here!

Under Construction

This Blog is Under Construction.


Time Permitting I will post by the end of July!

-Ben